I read an interesting piece by Deepak Chopra today on detachment. See:
www.intentblog.com/archives/2006/09/cultivating_det.htmlIn it, he describes detachment as a process:
"Detachment is a process, not a pretense. And it seems to be a natural process, as one can learn by conversing with mature people who have deeply considered their own lives. The beauty of detachment is that it needn't be a doctrine or a religious dictum. It can be the way your life is going once you contact the inner person who wants more than material desires can bring." -Deepak ChopraI find this way of thinking about detachment as particularly useful for avoiding self-judgment. Spiritual growth will always be a process. At no point are we likely to be fully detached from material wants. That doesn't mean we shouldn't seek to try to detach, which I understand to mean keeping from getting bogged down by material wants while continually readjusting our focus towards something higher. At times we will be more successful than others in this process of realignment. While I don't think we'll ever become absolutely perfect, we can certainly make progress towards the light of perfection.
This makes sense, too, in the light of The Hidden Words, wherein Bahá'u'lláh refers to "the path of detachment":
"I bear witness, O friends! that the favor is complete, the argument fulfilled, the proof manifest, and the evidence established. Let it now be seen what your endeavors in the path of detachment will reveal. In this wise hath the divine favor been fully vouchsafed unto you and unto them that are in heaven and on earth. All praise to God, the Lord of all worlds." —Bahá'u'lláh